Twelve years ago was the turning point in my life. My family revealed themselves to me and I decided that if I was to have peace in my life I had to turn my back on the past and only look forward.
There are unresolved matters and I am constantly forced to turn back and face my demons. I long to be free, I do not want to be reminded of what happened in the past nor do I want to deal with those who turned their backs on me.
An illness in the family has opened another door for them to contact me. I really don’t want this.
A man who has been appointed to deal with these matters and who has avoided me for a year has finally agreed to meet with me next week. They want me to make certain decisions – I don’t trust any of them.
Always go with your gut instinct. If something doesn’t feel right, don’t do it. If it feels right, do it.
Can you take along a friend? They will have your best interests at heart.
I need someone with legal knowledge
I could ask someone at work but I am not too eager to let them in on my personal affairs.
If you need someone with legal knowledge, it is really worth while, looking for a lawyer. They have a bad reputation, but there are good ones as well as the bad, and more often than not, they are worth their price. I have used them on occasion, when I didn’t want ‘face to face’ confrontations that I thought would make me unhappy. They can represent you… like a hired gun. And as for the family, after we’ve grown up, we can make the choice… about whose company we want… whom we want close, and whom not. That’s what freedom is all about. My best wishes to you… and yes, leave the past behind…
I have been paying a lawyer for legal advice for a decade now and I went for a second oppinion who informed that the first lawyer has been taking me money all these years and has not done anything for me.
I am very sorry to hear that. Sometimes, finding the right person is difficult, whether it is a car mechanic, a plumber or a lawyer. It sounds like you have a serious problem, and I wish you well.