I have been at my new job for 5 weeks now and I can finally post my opinion on the situation. My opinion is that I am extremely disappointed.
I am not disappointed that I left my old job because that had become like an old relationship which was never going to improve or change.
I am disappointed that when the new boss offered me a job, he told me that he was desperate for someone to start immediately and that I would be paid on the last day of every month.
The disappointment I am experiencing is largely my own fault too for assuming many things. I assumed that because this company supplied my previous boss with stock that it was a well established company with a good reputation and that I was making a move to a new company not entirely unfamiliar. Was I wrong? – In a big way!
The very first thing I noticed was: if the salesman told the boss get the blue one, he would think it a good idea and get the blue one, if the clerk said but the yellow one is better he would change everything around and get the yellow one. The boss cannot decide for himself.
They have changed my starting time and working hours 3 times, my duties have been change twice and then back again.
After being there 3 weeks, I heard for the first time that the company is in major financial trouble because the partners are stealing from the company. I was flabbergasted … why offer me a job if the company is going under?!
One unhappy staff member told me the boss loves `headhunting staff’ from his competitors, making them feel that he must have them immediately and then once they work for him treating them badly. I had not told her that he had already used this method to get me to work for him.
Suddenly I was informed that the one branch was closing down to cut costs and all the staff were joining us. We are now 9 people in this small section. Mainly Black, Chinese and White staff which consist of men and women and we must all share one toilet which does not flush properly.
They have recently moved their accounts from Quickbooks to Pastel and the whole system is poorly setup and it takes half an hour to do the most simplest of tasks.
On Friday I was told to work faster and contact customers for money and inform them which bank account to use because the other bank accounts were blocked because of a partner’s attempt to clear out the funds.
This took so long because I had to contact 200 customers get email addresses, which the branches were already suppose to do – but didn’t, inform customers of the new banking details, email details and request payment.
New phones were being put in for the staff members joining us, everything was mad and I had the boss breathing over my shoulder wanting to know how much money I was bringing in. By 11am I had not stopped for one moment, I started shaking … actually I noticed my neck and head shaking and my forehead was hurting. I realise I was not well. I had not eaten since I had some cereal at 6am. I gulped down half a sandwich while still working – then I took pain killers. Then I went to the one and only toilet, I reached it just in time and started to vomit.
I still haven’t received my salary, I am being hounded until I become physically sick and then 6pm Friday night the boss phones me to find out how did I progress during the day.
I don’t give up easily and I stayed at my previous employ for many years even after I saw that it was not going to work because I did not want to be unemployed.
I cannot make it work at this place and this morning when I woke up I decided I must start looking for something else no matter how much effort I put into this one it is not worth the effort even though I was learning quite a lot about accounting.
The unhappy staff member I mentioned above got into a squabble with the boss because she said she made a mistake and was sorry. He said to her “never say you are sorry, only weak people say they are sorry” and when she discussed the salaries with him he said “that one we’ll pay next week … GB is not important, that one can wait”. I am a very quiet but loyal person and if anyone refers to me as not important then I should not waste any time being loyal to them.
One can argue that English is not his first language and that maybe he did not mean it that way but at my old job I got paid every Friday and if there was a problem the boss would apologise for the delay. I was taught to have proper manners and to respect others.

GB I am so sorry about all this. You deserve to be happy. It sounds like you have already started the process to remove yourself from your current employment when you find a new job. I know it won’tbe easy. I am thinking about you and hoping the best for you.
Thank you so much. I hate change. I hate failure and I am going through a very bad stage. Jobs are extremely difficult to find and I am no longer a youngster.
I understand GB. CH, my Hubby, and I went thru what you are going thru at the same time in our jobs in 2001. I was so stressed out I nearly fell apart. I wasn’t sure about your age but had wondered if you were closer to my age or in your 30′s or 40′s. Knowing you consider yourself no youngster gives me a good enough idea
Oh my word…find another job quickly…how extremely disappointing!!!
Did something in my post make you cringe
Seriously I will be looking for something else.
I am so sorry you have to go through all this. I really hope you’find much better place to work than this one! Hugs!
Thank you, I really appreciate all the support.
That is horrible! I’m so sorry for you. I think at some point in my career I was under so much pressure that I was becoming the types of bosses you’ve had. I guess I started hating the way I treated people and didn’t seem to be able to change, so I became a minion. Today people want results and employees quit being people and are just statistics.
No one keeps their word and even if you get an agreement in writing they find a way to benefit from the situation.
That is just terrible! And not being paid after all these weeks is despicable. Yes, by all means, do look for a better job, GB. I am so sorry to read about your sad situation there.
Thank you Gigi, I appreciate all the support. I forgot to mention that the toilet is not lockable and anyone can barge in at anytime.
I can imagine you’re very disappointed and extremely p*ssed off about not being paid yet.
Sadly it’s time to look for something better, even though it might not be easy. Holding thumbs xx
Yeah, I don’t want to waste too much time at this place.
I am also experiencing problems at my work at the moment! It seemslike work ethics are something if the past!! So Sad!
What type of work do you do?
Oh GB, I’m sorry.
You’re absolutely right not to put up with this, you deserve much better. There is a company out there looking for a person just like you. Sending big hugs your way.
Thank you for the hugs, I got my salary after asking for it today – don’t like having to ask for my money.
This place seems like a total disaster. I do hope you will find something better soon. The ineptitude in staff relations is bound to overflow into the conduct of the business, so I doubt its prospects are much good. I would imagine you need to be respectfully but firmly assertive, or you will soon be used as a doormat.
When I asked about my salary this morning they said it was my fault I had not been paid, I should have spoken up sooner. The person in HR had forgotten to pay me. Another toilet has now been made available but I feel terribly let down. As you say everything is unlinked and they want to walk over me.
Whatever you do, don’t let them!
This is a terrible place. I hope that you find a nice place to work. I know it is hard these days, but I will hope the best for you
OMW, it seems like people are just forever trying to be ticks ;(
Please check the RTT Facebook website, or e-mail me, carneiro.natasha@gmail.com, they send out weekly positions here and maybe if I can forward some to you, you might find something?. I have been so unhappy since I started working, and here I’m not extremely happy, but I’m happier than what I’ve been in years.
You must also check on the big company websites, they usually have a “careers” section where you can upload your cv.
Rather get out, loyalty doesn’t pay the bills
Thank you for your advice I will check it out.
I have been under some pressure in recent weeks, and so wasn’t able to read most of the blogs I follow. However, I did keep the notices of your new posts, and now, after reading “ugly manipulation”, have gone back, and read this. I am so disappointed. I feel so sorry for you. I think others have already answered the same as I would answer, about your situation. But the lesson here, is when going to work for a company, one has to find out as much as he can about the company he is going to work for… and it is a good idea to also sound our another worker there. I do hope that things will improve soon.
As I mentioned in the post about the interview – a lady recommended me and I can’t believe that she tempted me to leave my job of 7 years for a place which is going bankrupt. These are all things which are not public knowledge. They supplied my former boss with stock and I really thought it was a strong reputable company and that I was making a good choice by going to a company I had heard of before. True I did not ask the right questions.